For nearly four decades now I have been involved in health care, or more specifically, helping to attend to the needs of people who are, in some way, shape or form, out of balance. I am surprised to see, so often, the roots of one's present state of being related to something that happened to them in the past. I realize we all have a past, that we all have an incredible assortment of experiences from our past, ranging in degrees of intensity. 

When I work with my coaching clients, the…